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      CommentAuthorTodd
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008 edited
     
    Hey guys,
    I need your advice on the best husband and wife videos. Ground rules: the video title can't include the words, Rambo, blood, or Robo-anything.

    Thanks,
    Todd

    PS - Before you watch any video or movie, it's not a bad idea to check it out on pluggedin online so there are no surprises.
    • CommentAuthorMarkW
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Any adaptation of a Jane Austen book, e.g., Pride and Prejudice. These are the ultimate chick-flicks. Guaranteed...
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    I've enjoyed the American girl movies so far...

    (I was the only man in the audience for the last one, but the look on my little girls faces taking them was worth it). And they are well done and interesting, even to adults.

    I miss cleanflicks...
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      CommentAuthorCRBMoA
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Kung Fu Panda
    • CommentAuthortkrueger
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    We have a very short list of movies that we recommend - “I Am David” is not well know but a fantastic movie, the “Love Comes Softly” series, and any of the Sherwood Church films: Flywheel, Facing the Giants, and Fireproof.
    • CommentAuthorjmckinney
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Here's the list (from Jason's wife--he gave me permission to post it.)
    While You Were Sleeping, A Walk To Remember, A Walk in the Clouds, Maid in Manhattan, Never Been Kissed, Sabrina (the Harrison Ford one), The Cutting Edge. Ummmmm, I would choose these over the Panda one. :)
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      CommentAuthorCRBMoA
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Please tell us about "I Am David"?
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    Todd,

    Michele and I usually pick something to watch each night after the kids are in bed (this past winter was the entire Northern Exposure series - wow even before Sarah Palin made the scene - Alaska was cooool! - a few shows are "out there" so use descretion).

    We watched the entire Little House & Walton's as a family the past 2 years with great memories and even visited Walton's Mountain in Virginia this past summer.

    This year for the family (kids 10 and older probably) we've started "7th Heaven" and we're in season #2 and lovin' the great life lessons it teaches. Suggest to start with Season #1 (episode #3).

    We get all of our stuff though Netflix which makes it easy. We love series movies/shows because it like watching a movie that is 200 hours long! Hey we even watched the first 3 seasons of The Partridge Family...stop laughing...

    Have a blessed Christmas season...our first show in is Michigan in March!

    Zavatsky Family
    KidsLoveTravel.com
    • CommentAuthoredlegs
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    The Count of Monte Cristo is a great movie of "romance, adventure and revenge". You can read a Christian review at http://www.pluggedinonline.com/movies/movies/a0000546.cfm.
    • CommentAuthorsoopacoopa
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    My favorite movie of all time...Luther, the new one with Joseph Feinnes, great story and great acting! My favorite movie this year, "Into The Wild" (not for kids). Great series to order on Netflix, the documentary "Long Way Round and Long Way Down" featuring Ewan McGregor traveling the world on a motorcycyle with his friend. Other good documentary: "The Spirit of the Marathon".
    • CommentAuthorkd8ok
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Todd,

    My wife loves "You've Got Mail" and "Kate and Leopold".

    Haven't seen the Panda movie yet....
    • CommentAuthorbrilou
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Okay, so here's one my husband and I love... we watch it about once a year - and it's still our favorite husband/wife movie. It's the classic adventure of Passion, Honor and Intrigue so it covers both of our needs in a movie!! :-) The name is: "The Scarlet Pimpernel" - there are a few versions out there but the best one is with: Anthony Andrews, Jane Seymour and Ian McKellen 1982 version... I sure hope you get to watch it with your wife -it'll become a favorite - guaranteed!!!!
    • CommentAuthormmassman
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Here are few of my wife and my favorites: Secondhand Lions, Ever After, One Night with the King, Holes, Galaxy Quest, Sense & Sensibility (w/Emma Thompson), Jane Ayre (w/William Hurt), Emma (w/Kate Beckinsale), Persuasion (w/Amanda Root), and believe it or not my wife loves Master & Commander because of the character development and relationships. End of the Spear is very good, but it's not a typical "date night" movie because of the subject and violence. We concur with the recommendation of the Love Comes Softly series and Sherwood Church films. We've found "www.pluggedinonline.com" to be helpful for pre-screening movies.
    • CommentAuthormmassman
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    ... Another good is "Return to Me".
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    Somewhere in Time (with Jane Seymour and a very young Christopher Reeves)
    Sabrina (but the Humphrey Bogart, Audrey Hepburn version is better)
    Miracle on 34th Street (again the original one is better)
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    "Return to Me" starring David Duchovny, Minnie Driver, Jim Belushi and Bonnie Hunt.
    This is an excellent movie. No food or drink though. Too much laughing and crying...
    "Only You" is also a good one.
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      CommentAuthorCRBMoA
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Actually, my wife and I watch "It's a Wonderful Life" every December.

    We also enjoyed "Napoleon Dynamite".

    I really appreciate this thread. As you can see, sending Daddy down to the video store (which I HATE to go into anyway) hasn't been all that it could have been.

    Both my wife and my daughter loved "Remember the Titans".
    • CommentAuthorbenders3
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    I would definitely reccomend Fireproof. It addresses the 'drift' factor in a powerful way. It is encouraging, yet shows how truly ugly things can get when left to our own selfishness.
    • CommentAuthorjpjhumbert
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    "The Lake House" with Keanu Reeves and Sandra Bullock is definitely a huge favorite of ours. The storyline is very "sweet" and satisfying, and there is even some mystery for those of you who like to "figure things out."
    • CommentAuthordlrider
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    One video my wife & I love to watch in November / December is Christmas in Connecticut - it is a oldie in B/W. Each time we watch it it gets funnier. We were introduced to it by a couple who are friends of ours & have been laughing annually. (Barbara Stanwick is about 20 in this film....)
    • CommentAuthoroperaman
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    I hafta agree with brilou, the Anthony Edwards "Scarlet Pimpernel" is fantastic. Fantastic portrayal of such a great classic story. You'll be saying "sink me, the lady's a poet" for days!
    • CommentAuthormjmjc
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Well a really great movie my wife watches over and over is "Perfect Stranger".

    Please do not mistake this for "The Perfect Stranger". The latter is a secular movie.

    But the former is a Wonderful fiction about Jesus coming to visit a mom/wife at a restaurant. This is a captivating, fully christian theme movie. Actor Jefferson Moore, Actress Pamela Brumley

    There is a second movie out it is called Another Perfect Stranger. I think you'll find both are Wonderful.
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      CommentAuthorethos2
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    My picks: Old Yeller, Where the Red Fern Grows and The Sound of Music.

    You wife will be crying, hugging, snuggling and wanting more movie nights, after a night with these movies.

    :-)
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    Have any of you seen "Click" with Adam Sandler? It's a pretty silly movie, and definitely funny, but I couldn't believe how powerful the story was. I couldn't believe I was actually crying while watching an Adam Sandler movie. Definitely a good movie for a husband and wife to refocus their priorities back onto what is truly important in life. Check it out!
    • CommentAuthormark
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008
     
    Hey Todd! Here are a few that come to mind:

    Love comes softly
    The American President
    The Princess Bride
    Pricess Diaries
    Hitch
    Facing the Giants

    For humor:
    Night at the Museum
    Galaxy Quest
    • CommentAuthorjeholden
    • CommentTimeNov 13th 2008 edited
     
    Posted By: CRBMoAPlease tell us about "I Am David"?


    MY wife and I just watched this one. We really liked it. It's the story of a young boy's journey running away from a concentration camp post WW2. Great story and intrigue. It keeps your attention even though it is well named a drama type movie. It even has a surprise at the end to make you want to see it again.

    Jeremy
    • CommentAuthortlc
    • CommentTimeNov 14th 2008
     
    Ok here are our favorites!
    The Man from Snowy River (the sequel is good too but not as good)
    Shall We Dance?
    The Master and Commander
    Pride and Prejudice (try to get the old version with Greer Garson- its a hoot!)
    Braveheart
    Pride
    The Legend of Zorro
    Chicken Run
    Ever After
    The Journey of Natty Gann
    Far and Away
    The Princess Bride
    Facing the Giants
    National Treasure
    The Ultimate Gift
    If in a wacky mood try Joe Verses the Volcano. It is only good if you are feeling goofy. This movie is so stupid it is funny if you are in the right frame of mind.
    Frequency was interesting
    • CommentAuthordaddaddad
    • CommentTimeNov 14th 2008
     
    Groundhog Day!! Bill Murry "Well what if there is no tomorrow? There wasn`t one today!"
    Funny, charming and romantic.
    • CommentAuthorBarry
    • CommentTimeNov 14th 2008
     
    Anne of Green Gables (series of 3). Touching. Wives AND kids can/will enjoy, and tender-hearted dads will cry along with 'em when Matthew dies 'in the saddle'...
    Also, the Horatio Hornblower series is great, though dads might enjoy it a bit more than the ladies.
    The Christy series (old TV) is very good as well.
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    my wife and I have recently borrowed the A&E Literary Classics Romance Collection. It has about 8 different movies including The Scarlet Pimpernel (very good), Ivanhoe (very good), Lorna Doone, Jane Eyer, Victoria & Albert, and others. Most of them I would put in the "chick flick" catagory but some are very much adventure films. Other movies I would recomend, some already mentioned but I'll confirm them: Princess bride, Fireproof, manfrom snowy river, love comes softly (surprizingly good), sense & sensibility, Scarlet pimpernel (1982 & 1934), sabrina, My Big Fat Greek Wedding, 27 dresses.
    • CommentAuthorpapamac
    • CommentTimeNov 15th 2008
     
    I have some movies for consideration. The movie we watch once a year around our anniversary is Roman Holiday with Gregory Peck and Audrey Hepburn. A definite classic 5 star movie leaves your wife crying and you pounding your chest because of the sacrifices we guys make for our women!

    The top of my true love chick flick list is Persuasion. It has to be the 1995 version with Amanda Root and Ciaran Hinds because the other versions are lacking. It is an English thinking movie with means that it is tedious in spots and you can't be doing anything else while watching it. It will be worth when you get to the "who loves longer?" discourse and the letter of Captain Wentworth.

    A very recent must see is Fireproof. Go see it in the theater now! I say this so you are not able to do anything else while watching it. Your marriage will be much stronger after it...guaranteed!

    Others are: Pride and Predjudice (2005) and (1995), Becoming Jane, Wives and Daughters, the Pirate (musical), Sound of Music (musical), Seven Brides for Seven Brothers (musical), Tale of Two Cities (1935), and Nicholas Nichleby (2002).

    Some to avoid due to sexual/moral content:
    The Notebook (2004)
    Mansfield Park (1998 version)
    Atonement (2008)
    • CommentAuthormjmjc
    • CommentTimeNov 15th 2008
     
    Many people have been mentioning the "Love Comes Sofly" series so I thought I would put them in order of production seeings they are better watched this way. We did watch them and loved them all. Although my wife has since read some of the books and has proclaimed the books are better.

    Love Comes Softly, 2003
    Love's Enduring Promise, 2004
    Love's Long Journey, 2005
    Love's Abiding Joy, 2006
    Love's Unending Legacy, 2007
    Love's Unfolding Dream, 2008
    And the new one should be released next year.
    • CommentAuthordaddyboy
    • CommentTimeNov 17th 2008
     
    My wife and I like to watch many different kinds of (older) movies together but these are the ones that she listed for this category....

    Anything Cary Grant:
    I was a Male War Bride, Bringing Up Baby (not what you'd expect), Suspicion, To Catch a Thief, My Favorite Wife

    Jane Eyre - Orson Wells Version

    Christmas in Connecticut - Barbara Stanwyk

    An American In Paris - Gene Kelly & Leslie Caron

    African Queen - Humphrey Bogart & Katharine Hepburn

    White Christmas - Danny Kaye & Bing Crosby

    Holiday Inn - Bing Crosby & Fred Astaire
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    Hi Todd,
    Great idea--I am always adding to the list in my adenda book of decent films for our family. I would have to agree with those above that Galaxy Quest and Princess Bride are comedy classics. Another lesser known comedy is "The gods must be crazy I" It starts out slowly like a documentary, but we love it. I would skip its sequel, however. If you are looking for good portrayals of fatherhood (you bein' da dad and all), I would suggest:

    Martian Child--an adoption story of a needy boy by a widower
    Cry the Beloved Country--best selling book made into a movie a couple times. James Earl Jones stars in latest.
    The Power of One --also set in S. Africa has some violence, but a powerful story. (NOt for young kids)
    Spy Kids I and II and the Incredibles are great kid fare and fun for parents too.
    Hope you get some good ideas. Thanks for your constant encouragement.
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    My wife and I enjoy many of the ones suggested, but one I didn't see on the list that is so funniy is Gone Fishing. We laughed all the way through it.
    • CommentAuthorAussieDad
    • CommentTimeNov 24th 2008
     
    Hi Todd, Hi fellas (aka you da dads!)

    my wife and I happened across a one season run of a top show that ended up as a movie which turned out to be the grand finale of the TV series.

    the Tv series was call FireFly and the movie was called Serenity

    Note you MUST!!! watch the TV series first!

    It had just the right balance of Chick and Guy candy with good morals and no Cussing !

    Blessings
    • CommentAuthorTexasDad
    • CommentTimeNov 25th 2008
     
    movies, how fun ! ;-)

    in no special order, and some of these are good for the kids too ..

    Secondhand Lions ( kids too, AWESOME movie )
    The Whale Rider
    La Tigre sotto la Neve ( The Tiger and the Snow, italian with subtitles)
    Schindler's List ( Absolute Masterpiece - NOT FOR KIDS )
    Hotel Rwanda ( preteens and teens ok, great movie)
    Shooting Dogs
    The Princess Bride ( CLASSIC )
    Life is Beautiful
    Donnie Darko ( warning, difficult movie, but it will make you think ..)
    The Station Agent
    King of California
    Mostly Martha
    My Neighbor Totoro ( ABSOLUTELY THE BEST KIDS MOVIE EVER MADE, it's cute for us "not kids" too )
    anything made by Hayao Miyazaki
    We were soldiers
    so many movies, so littel time...
    • CommentAuthorRBMoyer
    • CommentTimeFeb 4th 2009
     
    Why did this thread stop? It must continue.......!!

    Have now watched most of the movies listed above & need more.

    There have to be additional suggestions out there.

    Here in Buffalo we still have 2 more solid months of snow & cold-

    Must have more movies...................


    Keep 'em coming-
    Randy
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      CommentAuthorCRBMoA
    • CommentTimeFeb 4th 2009
     
    Kung Fu Panda. I know it's been mentioned before, I'm just sayin'. ;-)
    • CommentAuthorsjjnks
    • CommentTimeFeb 5th 2009
     
    Horton Hears a Who is now out on DVD. Not really a Husband/Wife thing, but your kids should like it. Plus it has some good messages re: faith in what we can't actually *see*, the value of life (contrast: abortion) "A Person's a Person No Matter How Small", the loyalty of friends, etc.

    Plus it's funny.
    • CommentAuthorspilo
    • CommentTimeFeb 5th 2009
     
    *WARNING: Tangent Incoming*

    Did anybody else notice in Horton Hears a Who that the main "evil" character was a homeschooling mom? My wife didn't like that one bit!

    *all clear, tangent dissipating*
    • CommentAuthorrobblair
    • CommentTimeFeb 5th 2009
     
    FIREPROOF! FIREPROOF! FIREPROOF! period.

    Fireproof is by far THE BEST MOVIE on marriage and for marriage TO DATE. It lifts up the holiness of marriage in a creative, non-predictable, REAL life struggles, while at the same time being REALLY entertaining.

    What other movie (mentioned above or not) tackles the conflict of marriage, the parasite of pornography, the covenant of marriage, a rock solid gospel presentation AND the most powerful scene of a husband humbling himself before his wife and asking her to forgive him.

    BEWARE ladies, if this movie doesn't make a tear come to your man's eye, you may be married to a dead man (or at least one without a sensitive bone in his body.)
    • CommentAuthorRBMoyer
    • CommentTimeFeb 9th 2009
     
    We saw Fireproof when it first came out in the theatre. Yep, it is a great movie & well worth everyone seeing, I agree.

    I am looking for more suggestions of ones not listed above, she & I will enjoy.

    FYI- check out your local libraries, they will have most of the ones above & they are FREE.

    What else???????
    • CommentAuthormjmjc
    • CommentTimeFeb 21st 2009 edited
     
    Posted By: tkruegerWe have a very short list of movies that we recommend - any of the Sherwood Church films: Flywheel, Facing the Giants, and Fireproof.



    We have just bought all three of these. They are going to go down in history as the best christian movies of all time. (in my book anyway)
    • CommentAuthorkedzeb
    • CommentTimeFeb 4th 2010
     
    The Ultimate Gift is one of the best I've seen in a while.
    • CommentAuthorMr. Darcy
    • CommentTimeFeb 5th 2010
     
    The Flywheel movie put out by the guys who did Facing the Giants and Fireproof is one of our favorites.
    • CommentAuthorkedzeb
    • CommentTimeFeb 11th 2010
     
    One of the WORST movies I've ever seen was "The Invention of Lying". The two main ideas portrayed in the movie are: 1) The existence of God is a lie 2) Lying to people is okay if it makes them feel better.

    My wife purchased this on Pay Per View because the trailers for the movie looked cute. We were both very disappointed when we watched it. DON'T MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE WE DID. It is insulting to Christians and anyone who believes in, as He is referred to in the movie, "The Man in the Sky"
    • CommentAuthorGreybeard
    • CommentTimeFeb 12th 2010
     
    Part of loving your wife is learning her special little idiosyncrasies and catering to them. My wife likes science fiction and British Humour (but not the naughty British Humour). So, when I check a video out of the library for us to watch after the kids go to bed, it's usually an old Dr. Who episode. Last night was Star Trek - First Contact, which she had never seen. We also have recorded some older BBC tv series such as To the Manor Born and Good Neighbors. The Agatha Christie Poirot mysteries are pretty good too. But you have to be careful with some of those. Tom in Good Neighbors does some mighty irritating guy things and if I'm sitting too close to my wife I'll come away with a bruised shoulder as she takes out her frustration with him on me.

    On the other hand, my wife enjoys watching me enjoy something. So, while it may not be her thing, she enjoys watching the campy kind of humor that sets me to chortling, like Princess Bride or The God's Must Be Crazy. I recently discovered Rumpole of the Bailey, a 1980 BBC series about a curmudgeonly old defense attorney who refers to his wife as, "She Who Must Be Obeyed." (based on the books by John Mortimer.) It's a bit worldly with lots of smoking and drinking, but little overt sex and violence.

    Bottom line: You aren't necessarily demonstrating love for your wife by sitting through a chick flick. That may not be her thing. you demonstrate love for your wife by observing her peculiar personality and catering to it.